Politeness / Register
What relationship and tone are we using?
Ý nghĩa
The social layer of language: formal, informal, polite, intimate, respectful, rude, professional, child-directed, or peer-like.
Cách nhận biết
Notice whether the wording changes depending on who speaks to whom.
Ví dụ
please|sir|formal you|informal you|honorific
Could you please|tu vs usted|Mr. Smith
Could you help me, please?
Visual guide
message: help me
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social layer:
who talks to whom?
formal / polite / peer / rude
Could you help me, please?
How languages mark E11: pronoun: tu vs usted verb form: polite ending word: sir / Mr. Smith particle: please style: direct -> indirect
Góc nhìn theo ngôn ngữ
Trong ngôn ngữ mẹ đẻ của Bạn
Politeness is deeply tied to pronouns, kinship terms, age/social relation, particles such as ạ, and indirectness.
Anh uống cà phê không ạ?
older-brother drink coffee not polite
Trong ngôn ngữ Bạn đang học
English politeness is often encoded through modal choice, indirectness, intonation, and formulaic phrases.
Could you help me, please?
could you please = polite request
Learners may translate polite forms literally and sound too blunt or too formal.
Same block, different coding
Both languages use this block strongly, but they signal it differently. Focus on form changes, not only meaning.